Cock and Ball Torture

Cut, uncut, large, small, wide, skinny, low hanging, curved or whatever, our cock and balls are some of the most erogenous parts of our body. Genitals are sensitive and fragile which is why any stimulation to that area can be gratifying. However, at the same time, if mishandled or treated too roughly serious damage can occur to the genitals leading to ruptures and tears.

What’s your type?

There are different cock and ball toys used as enhancements which are the ones designed to create larger and harder erections; stimulators, the toys that add stretching, dividing spreading or adding weights and finally the chastity toys which will encapsulate the shaft.

For more information about cock and ball toys, types of clamps, pins, clips and weights visit your local adult shop. Pinching with fingernails or tweezers can also be an effective way of causing a painful sensation.

Take Care

Make sure to clean your toys with warm soapy water and alcohol when you first get them and after each session. Note that the ball sack (scrotum) is very sensitive and it gets even more sensitive when stretched by binding or pulling.

To prevent bleeding avoid cutting and puncturing the skin. If you feel that your sexual exploration is causing you some distress or impacting you negatively, there are some numbers where you can enquire about these issues and get some support or information.

Binding

Bound to happen…

The cock and balls can be bound using a variety of things including rope, leather, chain, gauze and packing tape. The pleasurable sensation of wrapping the ball sack, whether binding the testicles together or separately, comes from stretching and/or separating the testicles. Some guys use binding to maintain an erection, in other cases, it is used to prevent the bottom from getting a hard-on, which can be useful when engaging in other activities. But be cautious because the blood flow restriction that binding causes means that it is not recommended for extended periods of time.

Whipping

Whip It Good

One form of CBT is slapping and whipping. Great pain can be achieved by slapping the testicle sack gently but firmly. The pain comes from the testicle bouncing within the sack, but results can be obtained without using too much force.

Take Care

Take care when slapping bound testicles as you can rupture your fellas. More caution is required when dealing with the enlarged blood vessels that come with a fully erect cock. Even though you can whip a cock when it’s hard or soft, you need to take care not to rupture blood vessels as they take time to heal and could lead to erectile dysfunction. To ensure against injury you can be creative when thinking about whipping implements but using shoelaces or soft ropes. You can also check with your local adult shops to see if smaller “key chain”size whips are available.

Heat

The heat is on

Heat is a tool used in CBT. There are many ointments, spray, balms and other substances such as tiger balm that will contain menthol and other herbal ingredients that are designed to penetrate the skin and deliver heat to alleviate pain and inflammation. However, using water or piss will not relieve the heat sensation, it will instead intensify it and blisters may result.

Wax on, Get off!

Another way of using heat in CBT is by the use of wax. There are two kinds of wax. The first is soft and melts quicker but is cooler once it melts, the other is a hard wax that burns slow and is much hotter. Candles designed especially for this type of play are available from adult stores.

Take Care

Softer candles made from soy burn at a lower temperature, candles made out of paraffin burn hotter, test the candle on the back of your hand by holding it about 60cm above so the wax has time to cool a little to avoid burning or blistering, never use bees wax or scented candles as these burn much hotter and will cause damage. Because the removal of dried wax from unshaven balls is painful, shaving of the submissive before waxing can alleviate this problem and make the shaved area more sensitive. It can also be fun.

Squeezing

Put the squeeze on

The simplest form of ball torture is squeezing. You should start gently and increase pressure slowly to explore your partner’s limit. There are nerves on the outside of the testicles and rubbing those produces a sharp pain that travels up into the abdomen. A way of achieving more pressure is by using clamps or clothespins. During clamping, the submissive (sub) will adjust to the pressure applied to a certain area, but when the clamps are removed he will experience the pain. You can make your submissive experience more intense by adding weights to clamps. Weights come in different sizes and shapes.

Chastity

Lock an’ Unload

Chasity is locking your penis in a specially designed cage that stops the wearer getting a full erection. While in chastity you can’t masturbate or cum, some subs say orgasm denial increases sex drive. They can also be used by Doms to punish their subs. Make sure this is with someone you trust and they keep an extra key around just in case one gets lost.

In an Emergency

 WHAT IF SHIT GOES WRONG?

  • If you or your partner get onto trouble during CBT play go directly to the emergency department of your nearest hospital without delay or call an ambulance.
  • In an emergency dial 000 and remember paramedics and emergency workers have seen it all! No matter what you’ve done there’s no need to be embarrassed.
  • Not quite an emergency? Not sure if you need to go to the hospital? Give Nurse On Call 24 hours a day for advice on 1300 60 60 24

Not an emergency but got a question about CBT? Give us a holler and we’ll happily answer your questions about keeping your session safe and hot!

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